In Lesbian sex terms, What is the difference between a "top" and a "Bottom"? I feel a bit out of the loop. Could someone help me out.
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Are there lesbian tops and bottoms?
More often than not, the terms refer to who is active and who is receptive- a bottom is usually one who is penetrated and touched and licked, whilst the top is the one doing the penetrating and touching and licking. We don't really have a top or a bottom. I guess she was trying to tell you she was dominant. However isn't it different with oral sex? It seems to be with gay men.