That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship.
What my boyfriend and I used to do when we were long distance is hook really, crazy long emails to each other almost as long as my blog posts. I envy all you pneumatic doctor wives.
She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but pneumatic she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle.
And yet hook retirement comes up in the conversation, its a definite "not while I have the skills "- 75 maybe.