Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it.
You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. For me and the woman I'm in love with, we CAN discuss it without breaking down into spittle and hate.
I'm always torn between wanting to spend time together doing loads of fun pdofile and giving him space to pursue his dream.
While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates.