Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me.
God told me to marry my husband. Having seen many examples of pregnanr disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start.
I am married to an ongologist for 16years.
Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool.