Eventually it turned into a sour argument. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that sex after 6 weeks dating be welcome "when absolkte ready. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual.
All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father.
Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult.