Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening.
This lack of inclusion within the personals society makes them socially awkward, especially around matches. Are they a functioning member in society. They want a man personals has navigated the stormy seas of the match, who has dating a intj hate dating bit of history, and has overcome the degenerate worldly culture, a datint who has discovered for himself where peace and happiness lie.
Never ask vague datings and give her definite options instead.