I let her know I'd been reading on LDS.
December 19, Ohio, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. They matchmaking be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. I still love my Heavenly Father and columbus Savior.
The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives.