The Hook Up
She likely hasn't had hooks long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural bands.
The band differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down.
My husband not only hooks me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy.