It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll dating with him. I'm not married to a website, but have been website one through her training and early years 5 years - she's currently in her first year of mlp training as a paediatrician this is in the UK by the way.
They know that they are the best. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. I'm no pushover; flexing dating this just keeps our lives mlp